Omiai Success <3
Sep. 17th, 2018 10:12 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
niyuzuku I never think that I will falling love this deep for ones who I never know before. I never think that I get someone like him became mine. We are really different, but we also have same perception.
His mother is the one behind the match making(omiai). His mother know my big family, and my family know their family. When his mom ask my mother to match making me and him, my mom really happy. As a oldest daughter, and how I cannot search man by myself (because my age is more than average time to married in my country), I just going with the flow, so I accept the omiai. Our family really happy, but me and him doesnt know each other. I wonder how can he dont know me as I was an active youth in our town, and his younger brother is the head of the youth, and his other brother which same age as me was studying together in the same institute. But well, I also dont know him, although that because he is the one who rarely socialize.
Back to the story, He is the one who initiate to chat me. His chat really polite, and never cross the line. He also the one who initiate to meet me. He ask me to date 11 days after we start chatting. Our fist meeting really cute. Most of it we just take glances to each other, smiling and laughing. We just talk about how our family know each other but we dont know each other.
It looks he accept me, so he ask me to the next date 2 weeks after the first meeting. He looks better than what I think. We still have our shy side, we just talk about trivial things like what we post in our instagram, and about work. He also ask me about my trip to japan, I told everythings to him. I know that he doesnt have any interest about japan, but he listen to my story wholeheartly. He ask me about the difference about our country and how I like japan so much. I told him that I love the way japan treat tradional things with modern things can be live side by side and make it better. How their people doesnt like to break the rules and many other good things about japan. After my long story, he told me that my story make him remember about his younger days when everything is great in traditional way in my town, but he felt little sad as now there are more and more people break the rule and make anything worse. He hope our town also can have our traditional and modern way is living side by side in peace. I love the way we think about our town. He love it in traditional way, and I love in the modern way, and both of us can be peace side by side.
I love to stay at home, rarely traveling (like just 1 or 2 in a year or not at all), love computer so much, idoling many japanese stuff, and years ago is one of the most active youth of the city (before I working and really shut my self from any social thing because feeling old already). I also courageous to go to another city to work by myself for months.
But in the same time, we have wonderful same way of think. We always try hard to abide the rules, we love our own time, we love to eat healthy food, we love vegetables more than anythings, we love to help the others, we dont like to distrub the other pace, we dont like to do anything hard, we spend our money just for our hobbies (not for others), we love to eat at home, we enjoy life in our town, we love to spend our free time at home (especially our rooms).
He really perfect man that I dream of.
His mother is the one behind the match making(omiai). His mother know my big family, and my family know their family. When his mom ask my mother to match making me and him, my mom really happy. As a oldest daughter, and how I cannot search man by myself (because my age is more than average time to married in my country), I just going with the flow, so I accept the omiai. Our family really happy, but me and him doesnt know each other. I wonder how can he dont know me as I was an active youth in our town, and his younger brother is the head of the youth, and his other brother which same age as me was studying together in the same institute. But well, I also dont know him, although that because he is the one who rarely socialize.
Back to the story, He is the one who initiate to chat me. His chat really polite, and never cross the line. He also the one who initiate to meet me. He ask me to date 11 days after we start chatting. Our fist meeting really cute. Most of it we just take glances to each other, smiling and laughing. We just talk about how our family know each other but we dont know each other.
It looks he accept me, so he ask me to the next date 2 weeks after the first meeting. He looks better than what I think. We still have our shy side, we just talk about trivial things like what we post in our instagram, and about work. He also ask me about my trip to japan, I told everythings to him. I know that he doesnt have any interest about japan, but he listen to my story wholeheartly. He ask me about the difference about our country and how I like japan so much. I told him that I love the way japan treat tradional things with modern things can be live side by side and make it better. How their people doesnt like to break the rules and many other good things about japan. After my long story, he told me that my story make him remember about his younger days when everything is great in traditional way in my town, but he felt little sad as now there are more and more people break the rule and make anything worse. He hope our town also can have our traditional and modern way is living side by side in peace. I love the way we think about our town. He love it in traditional way, and I love in the modern way, and both of us can be peace side by side.
I love to stay at home, rarely traveling (like just 1 or 2 in a year or not at all), love computer so much, idoling many japanese stuff, and years ago is one of the most active youth of the city (before I working and really shut my self from any social thing because feeling old already). I also courageous to go to another city to work by myself for months.
In the other hand, you is the shy man who never talk a lot, especially with woman, like to traveling around, do many sport, doesnt know about computer at all, really down to earth, do anything with traditional way, rarely away from home more than 3 days, and dont socializing much, so I can count his friend with my fingers.
But in the same time, we have wonderful same way of think. We always try hard to abide the rules, we love our own time, we love to eat healthy food, we love vegetables more than anythings, we love to help the others, we dont like to distrub the other pace, we dont like to do anything hard, we spend our money just for our hobbies (not for others), we love to eat at home, we enjoy life in our town, we love to spend our free time at home (especially our rooms).
He really perfect man that I dream of.
- Same religion
- Down to earth
- Doesnt like arguing
- Can lead me (usually man afraid to lead me because of my education hinger than him)
- Listen to my words (at least he never cut my sentences, so there is no miss understanding. And although he dont understand my line of work and dont know anything about Japan, but he let me talk about it. He know I will stop my self if he start smiling because not understand it)
- Can counsel my problems (His answer to my problem really amazingly perfect for me)
- Give me my own time and freedom (he let me work in peace. He never distrub me in the work time, and let me fangirling)
- A calm man (not too hype about everything)
- Understanding (never judge me one sidely. He try to understand from my point of view)
- Older than me (at least 5 years older, max 15 years older) Lucky, he is 12 years older than me. I love it so much. He is same age as ohchan (as I remember I dreamt ohchan propose me, we got married and have a happy life).
